If you allow ... ragioniam Love It can be argued that by its very nature love defies all reason, that has nothing to do with the reason, seems so mysterious to its genesis, its progress or regress, its persistence, its partial or total eclipse, finish his or her eternal being.
Nevertheless someone has tried to reason above, the stilnovisti, even if their reasoning had a love of nature and not without distinctly esoteric rhetoric, all'aretina, whose Thoughts relate more to the field of sex, such a de
the and such a , rather than feeling. Others have grappled with love even from a scientific point of view or para-science, like Paolo Mantegazza and Federico De Roberto, so to speak Physiology of Love and the sociological point of view as Alberoni. There was even someone who has spoken (or straparlato) Chemistry of Love.
But it is said that
"At the heart can not control? that
"Love and unloved is not for those who want to do? are useless and unrealistic attempts to discourse of love, emotion not reducible to reasoning.
Orson Welles in the role of Othello warns
"Love has no wisdom"
"Love has no measure"
You can not discipline him, bridling nell'alveo of a life free from uncontrollable emotions, e non di rado dannose, che esso suscita.
Ragionando, temerariamente, d'amore, con un amico poeta a tempo pieno e prosatore a tempo parziale,, mi lascio trasportare dalla mia non sopita sicilianità e gli enuncio un detto siciliano che io, a torto o a ragione, ritenevo (non so se ritengo ancora) la più elevata espressione del sentimento amoroso:
- Si'n Paradisu nun ci trovu a tia, mancu ci trasu" (Se in Paradiso non trovo te, nemmeno ci entro).
Mi illudevo di impressionare il mio interlocutore, ma questi, più prosaicamente che poeticamente, mi obietta che, dietro l'apparente enfasi amorosa, si cela, non poi così nascostamente, l'auspicio dell'amante that the beloved before he reaches what he calls the Verga world of truth, namely that the more prosaically, that the beloved
throws the bucket first lover.
With equal vis poetry, I would point out, we can say the same thing without specifying who was the first to reach the goal:
"Better to hell with you that in heaven without you."
This is the modest writer who dreams even if briefly, the rise of Olympus poetic, just rbuttato down cynically by those who, like the true poet can get on and off at will the high peaks of Culture and Poetry. Poets and writers there is sudden.
He said his reason:
"He who is born round do not die square."